Thursday, April 1, 2010

Why do we shout when we are angry ?

Recently in one of the children magazine i read this short story. I felt it is the story /Message that everybody should know.

This is my gentle effort to all the readers to make them know something about themselves

This one is a lovely mail and you should read it….. A good one too……..I am sure you will like it.
A saint asked his disciples, 'Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?'
Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, 'Because we lose our calm, we shout for that.'
'But,
why to shout when the other person is just next to you?' asked the
saint. 'Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why
do you shout at a person when you're angry?'
Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the saint.
Finally
he explained, 'When two people are angry at each other, their hearts
distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to
hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to
shout to hear each other through that great distance.'
Then
the saint asked, 'What happens when two people fall in love? They don't
shout at each other but talk softly, why? Because their hearts are very
close. The distance between them is very small...'
The
saint continued, 'When they love each other even more, what happens?
They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other
in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at
each other and that's all. That is how close two people are when they
love each other.'

MORAL: When you argue do not let your hearts get distant, do not say words that distance each other

Would request everyone to practice the same.

Happy reading :-)

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